• Says dark hours are learning hours
From our news desk, Benin
The Edo State Commissioner for Women Affairs and Social Development, Hon. Eugenia Abdallah has urged women to remain focused on their dreams and life purpose, stressing that personal adversity, betrayal and difficult experiences should not be allowed to define their destinies.
Abdallah stated this as a panelist at the 2026 South South Girls Rock Press Event and Dinner, organised by Empire TV in collaboration with the Edo State Ministry of Women Affairs and Social Development, in Benin City.
The director of media in the Ministry, Daisy Osunde made this known in a press release circulated amongst journalists in Benin.
Speaking on the theme, “How I Survived My Dark Days as a Woman,” the Commissioner shared personal experiences from her career in the banking sector and political life, where she encountered workplace betrayal, difficult relationships and other challenges, it was stated.
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According to the press release, She recalled how a trusted colleague undermined her during a promotion process, but rather than allowing the setback to discourage her, she viewed it as an opportunity that eventually paved the way for her emergence as a commissioner.
Abdallah emphasised the importance of self-reliance, emotional strength and having a dependable support system.
As she identified her children and her mentor, Rt. Hon. Festus Ebea, as sources of encouragement during difficult periods.
Continuing, She was quoted to have encouraged: women must learn to spend time alone, reflect on their experiences and become their own source of motivation, while recognising that every challenge presents an opportunity for growth.
“Dark hours are learning hours,” she declared, urging women to transform their trials into lessons that prepare them for a stronger and better future.
Also speaking at the event, the Commissioner for Public Safety and Security, Edo State, Rt. Hon. Festus Ebea, highlighted the vulnerability of single mothers and widows, noting that difficult circumstances could expose women to exploitation and manipulation.
Ebea stressed the importance of financial independence, personal accountability and preparedness, urging women not to place their entire financial and emotional security in the hands of partners, friends or associates.
He encouraged them to cultivate personal enterprise and take responsibility for their destinies.
Other speakers, including the Proprietress of Cheldam International School, Nma Kande Okoigi; founder of Ruru World Event, Mrs. Helen Izore; and the Proprietress of Victorious Mega Kitchen, Mrs. Mabel Iyonagbe, shared inspiring accounts of overcoming personal struggles, business setbacks, betrayal and humble beginnings.
They demonstrated how resilience, determination, faith and continuous self-development could transform difficult experiences into successful enterprises and meaningful contributions to society.
They also encouraged women to own their stories and use their experiences to inspire and empower others.
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In his welcome remarks, JoJo Dominic of Empire TV and Project Coordinator while highlighting the vital role of women as nurturers, mentors and pillars of society,
called for greater recognition of the achievements and potential of South South women beyond traditional stereotypes.
Dominic who reflected on the role of mentorship in his modelling career, emphasised the need to guide young people against cultism, violence and other negative influences.
He explained that South South Girls Rock was designed to provide young women with networking opportunities, positive role models and a safe platform for meaningful conversations, collaboration and empowerment.
The event which held on Sunday, September 13, 2026, at the New Civil Service Recreational Club and Event Centre, Benin City, brought together women from diverse backgrounds to share experiences, celebrate achievements and promote resilience, empowerment and personal growth.
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